Trauma recovery in children is emphasized to rely on honesty, watchfulness, and religious faith by Catholic psychologists.
In the tragic events of August 27, a mass shooting targeting schoolchildren at Annunciation Parish in Minneapolis shook the community. This incident, like many others, underscores the importance of addressing the emotional aftermath and recovery process for those affected, particularly children and teens.
Trauma can manifest in various ways, and it's crucial to be aware of the warning signs. Changes in behavior and regular functioning, sleep and appetite disruptions, acting-out behavior, aggression, and mood changes are all potential indicators that a child or teen may be struggling to cope.
While supporting those who have experienced trauma, it's essential to approach the situation with sensitivity. Teens, in particular, may not respond well to spiritual romanticism or quick supports from adults. Instead, modeling acceptance of pain and providing an accepting and safe environment can help them feel more open with themselves and with God.
Clinical psychologist Robert J. Wicks emphasizes that trauma and death are great psychological and spiritual puzzles in life. He highlights the evolving needs of growing children as they recover from trauma, stating that young children need support and nurturing to feel secure, while older children and teens need the opportunity to share their concerns and difficulties with adults.
The concept of post-traumatic growth embraces the initial array of negative emotions surrounding loss and death, which may also be the seeds of new life. It's crucial to consider the existing resiliency factors in a child's life for healing from trauma. Kids who feel supported, loved, cared for, and have a history of a stable and safe environment are more likely to heal from trauma.
However, parents and caregivers should be careful not to unintentionally try to shortcut the healing process for teens. Kids lacking resiliency factors are more vulnerable when they suffer trauma or abuse, as they do not have protective factors, according to clinical psychologist James Black.
The trauma from the Annunciation shooting can manifest in various ways among families of the children who were killed, injured children, children close to those killed or injured, and children who knew the victims. It's essential to create an environment where these children feel safe to express any emotion, including anger at God, without fear.
In a world where tragic events are all too common, it's important to remember the resilience and capacity for growth that children and teens possess. By understanding the signs of trauma and providing a supportive environment, we can help them navigate the challenging road to recovery.
On a separate note, September 10 saw the targeted killing of conservative activist Charlie Kirk. While this event is a reminder of the ongoing violence and division in our society, it's crucial to focus on the healing and support we can provide to those affected by trauma, regardless of the circumstances.
In a remarkable example of resilience, Brother Mario, a Marist brother active in Aleppo, Syria, confronted with the traumatic consequences of violence, continues to work tirelessly to bring hope and healing to those in need. His story serves as a testament to the power of resilience and the human spirit's capacity to endure and grow in the face of adversity.
